The Yellow Flags
THE YELLOW FLAGS⚠️⚠️⚠️
In this vocation, I help thousands of courting partners walk into a healthy Godly marriage everyday. One character I have soo observed to be consistent about God, even in my own season of courtship this few months, is how God is always fond of stylishly shinning His light on some areas in our relationship to bring to the surface those things that He wants us to work on in our marriage. Those things that are going to pose a concern to us, those things that are going to slow down our growth in marriage, He illuminates and pushes it out to the surface, trusting that we can read the signs and put on own work clothes.
I call these signs "The Yellow Flags" ⚠️
I tell courting couples all the time, yellow flags are not the same as red flags🚫. Some always get very worried when they begin to notice some irregular behaviours in each other. One question I will always ask both partners is; are this irregularities marriage threatening? Can they be solved? Are they things that you both can work on and resolve without compromising on your Godliness, values or anything? And their answers are usually YES they can be solved!
I want you to get this early guys, Yellow flags are signs of God pointing you to an area of your courtship that you need to work on before walking into marriage. This does not mean that God doesn't approve of your marriage, neither are they signs that you are getting married to the wrong person. God is saying, "Yes this is it, but I will permit that misunderstanding to rise so you can see that he still needs to work on his anger, and you need to work on your patience too."
I hope somebody is getting this?
Many times God used yellow flags to train us to be better equipped for the bigger challenges ahead. You both need to always work with God.
Red flags says this relationship is toxic and this person is a no no for you. But God uses yellow flags to say "hey, proceed with caution." Married folks understand perfectly well what I'm talking about, some of the character and attitude challenges they are working through in their marriage right now are things they noticed in courtship but did not give that much attention to it. I want you to get this stuff early, don't wait until when you are inside the marriage to learn the best way to apologize to your husband, or the best time to bring up issues with your wife. God uses yellow flags to give us heads-up and what to expect.
So the next time you are having misunderstandings and challenges in your courtship no matter what it is, you both need to sit down and say, "okay babe, God let this happen to help us build our action plans. Going forward, how do we handle this issue better if it rises again?"
Yellow flags help us build action plans around situations.
Have you been blessed?
#toolateforyourmarriagetofail #Jesusgang #confessionsofagoodman #allisonhyacintho
In this vocation, I help thousands of courting partners walk into a healthy Godly marriage everyday. One character I have soo observed to be consistent about God, even in my own season of courtship this few months, is how God is always fond of stylishly shinning His light on some areas in our relationship to bring to the surface those things that He wants us to work on in our marriage. Those things that are going to pose a concern to us, those things that are going to slow down our growth in marriage, He illuminates and pushes it out to the surface, trusting that we can read the signs and put on own work clothes.
I call these signs "The Yellow Flags" ⚠️
I tell courting couples all the time, yellow flags are not the same as red flags🚫. Some always get very worried when they begin to notice some irregular behaviours in each other. One question I will always ask both partners is; are this irregularities marriage threatening? Can they be solved? Are they things that you both can work on and resolve without compromising on your Godliness, values or anything? And their answers are usually YES they can be solved!
I want you to get this early guys, Yellow flags are signs of God pointing you to an area of your courtship that you need to work on before walking into marriage. This does not mean that God doesn't approve of your marriage, neither are they signs that you are getting married to the wrong person. God is saying, "Yes this is it, but I will permit that misunderstanding to rise so you can see that he still needs to work on his anger, and you need to work on your patience too."
I hope somebody is getting this?
Many times God used yellow flags to train us to be better equipped for the bigger challenges ahead. You both need to always work with God.
Red flags says this relationship is toxic and this person is a no no for you. But God uses yellow flags to say "hey, proceed with caution." Married folks understand perfectly well what I'm talking about, some of the character and attitude challenges they are working through in their marriage right now are things they noticed in courtship but did not give that much attention to it. I want you to get this stuff early, don't wait until when you are inside the marriage to learn the best way to apologize to your husband, or the best time to bring up issues with your wife. God uses yellow flags to give us heads-up and what to expect.
So the next time you are having misunderstandings and challenges in your courtship no matter what it is, you both need to sit down and say, "okay babe, God let this happen to help us build our action plans. Going forward, how do we handle this issue better if it rises again?"
Yellow flags help us build action plans around situations.
Have you been blessed?
#toolateforyourmarriagetofail #Jesusgang #confessionsofagoodman #allisonhyacintho
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